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LIKE THEE SONG SAYS: IT'S MY TURN NOW!
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I NEVER LEARNED HOW TO BE SUBTLE

     Subtly is a great skill if you can make it work.  Unfortunately for me it is a skill I was never any good at.   Like the song says subtle as a chain saw, that is me I just put it out there and more then once that has gotten me into trouble.   I can be blunt, direct, brutally honest, sarcastic and down right aggravating at some times, but subtle is something I do not do well.  

     Some people can hint at something and people will correct the problem, but that does not work for me.   I say things as I see them, and sometimes people do not like the way I word things.   I have had to be assertive all my life if I felt I was right, and the fact of the matter is 80% of the time I am right.   It is the other 20% when I am wrong and I think I am right that makes people mad.

   My Aunt Gin and I once had words because she did not like how I said something to her. She said I had an authoritative tone in my voice and that I should not speak like that.   The irony of the situation is I learned that manner of speech from her.  Everything she ever said she said like she knew she was right and mom said I was just like her. lol   So if anyone is looking for subtly from me they are looking the wrong place.